I had this exact conversation with a friend a few months ago when Westworld first came on HBO. He had failed to understand after numerous conversations the attraction I found in going to Thailand.
Since I knew he was watching WW, I asked him if he remembered when the new guy showed up and wore the white hat because he didn’t think he could be a bad guy? He did. I told him it was just like that and I was the man in the white hat.
First visit I was too nice. I never got taken advantage of, but I paid too much and bought too many drinks for girls I had no interest in ever taking out of the club or gogo.
Each subsequent visit I was less and less interested in being compliant to the requests of the girls. I lost my newbie eyes and now I was looking for ways to change the game into my own new reality.
One of my challenges is to always remember that these girls are real people. Even if they have been programmed to respond and act a certain way due to their previous experience and exposure to the realities of the environment within which they exist.
Now I challenge myself to look for the weak spots in their armor. Access that spot and attempt to find the girl still inside the working girl.
In one episode of WW one of the characters says something along the lines of this.
If the robots don’t know they are robots and they have a fear of death, and they feel pain internally, as we all do, what makes them different than those of us that live and breathe?
Great topic and a great show if you get a chance to watch it.