I've been around Thailand for 11 years, recently in Bangkok for the first time (living). I enjoy an oil massage, and am open to extras of course. I visited On Nut last weekend where there was a pretty girl who caught my eye. I approached her and asked for an oil massage, a guy stood up. I spoke to the girl, asked if she would do it, no, she doesn't do massage.
Failure.
Where can I go for a good oil massage that may or may not end with extras? If I go into a massage place knowing they are looking for extras, I don't enjoy the massage, but I'm not up for a guy massaging my inner thigh. I might enjoy it.